Be kind to yourself before being to others

 

We have heard a zillion times ‘Treat others how you want to treat yourself’, over the period of time we have definitely taken ‘Treating Others Well” quite seriously this has rolled into our lives so much that we are going beyond our means to please others, At times even when the answer is a simple NO we still stretch ourselves to say a YES and let me be honest this is actually quite dangerous for your self-esteem,

In your Journey towards leading a purposeful, meaningful and gigantic loving life starts with the fact ‘Treating yourself first well’ and a very important pillar supporting this beautiful thought is ‘Forgiving yourself often”, We often apply Alexander Pope’s famous line ‘To Err is Human and to Forgive is Divine’ for others but seldom apply it for us, Both scientifically and spiritually it’s proven that ‘Forgiving Our self’ is fundamentally  so correct that it should be the Top Ingredient of our Recipe if are planning to toss a delicacy called ‘A Supreme  Life’,

Now don’t Mistake a ‘A Supreme Life’ with just being successful and achieving whatever we want to achieve, A Supreme life is seared  at times by flames of rejection and dash of worries and that’s totally normal because by pain comes perseverance and perseverance produces character and a positive character truly deserves  ‘A Supreme Life’,

However in order to endure, in order to contribute significantly in your life it imperative that you are not trodden by the baggage of ‘Un-forgiveness’, it’s quite human that we commit mistakes, hurt others or jump the gun when the ask is to remain calm after the moment has passed we start vindicating our action and most of the times fail because the yardstick that we often use measure our actions is determined by the society and that failure makes us travel that arduous path called ‘Victimization’

One Truth that we all need to accept is there is no way you can break free if you are a prisoner of your ‘Un-forgiveness’ , To live free , to get going , to have a better relationship etc. the key element is self-forgiveness,

Your contribution towards this world is significant , with the words that you spell and actions you perform you can either destroy or else develop anyone however to do that your yourself need to be full of Zeal and purpose , So Start forgiving yourself often , be kind to yourself cause when you do that you reflect the same compassion towards others in this world.

 

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Following the failure.....

They say "Who you are is the places you have traveled  and  people you have met" , this thought has inspired  me many  times and I always wanted to travel to the depth of this phrase , in life I have failed miserably at times and all these while I have looked for some sort of inspiration , I have been lucky enough to find it handy always and more happy coz  most of the times it has come from PEOPLE  , People Successful people who have failed miserably in their life , not that I want to draw learning from their failures but I always wanted to understand what kept them going despite of all the odds , sheer determination or a belief that whatever the situation is it will change and it will change for good , And adding to my  joy  it has been always the latter one , All who I draw my inspiration from have looked at their temporary failures as a stepping stone and stayed impeccably   positive in their life , What looked like a wonderland story has always been a hard reality which they have tasted with a pinch of salt , Stories of a  school drop out millionaire who have stood in the line of beggars for food , a US return MS degree holder who chose network marketing as an option and emerged as a Rock star at a corporate-tender age of 25  , A  Sport star who has failed miserably during practice sessions however  closed almost all the times  as a champion  ,  Movie superstars who used to sleep on the benches outside the shops now own a business empire in the Hindi movie industry and when I look in my day to day life I see numerous such stories of employees who have scaled new heights because irrespective of the situation their confidence and attitude didn't change , They realized that its very critical that they hold on to their dreams which is connected by a thin string of hope , determination and continuous action , Yes  that's the word Action - Karma , Karni whatever you call it , This little word has to exist in you daily life if you have embarked your journey towards your dreams- A network marketing entrepreneur may have shown 250 business plans to 250 different people to get  6 people par with his ambition and conviction level